No matter how early I arrive at the airport, the moment I find myself waiting in line at TSA, I begin to develop an anxiety which is inflamed by the queue of people waiting for security clearance, with 2-5 TSA Agents standing around chatting, while a single line is servicing the queue. On the outside … [Read more…]

When I say YOU I mean I, You know?

When I say I, I mean I. When You say You but Mean I, I think You’re referring to me. You know? Following a statement up with: You Know? prevents the recipient from reflecting on what was said. Don’t be lazy. Communicate what YOU want to communicate and wait for your recipient’s response. Gross generalizations … [Read more…]

Dating is all about Low Weight and High Reps

Low Weight: 2 people “getting to know each other” and doing so alone in a dark room complicate things unnecessarily. Have fun, be yourself, talk with and and get to know each other. High Reps: Meet lots of people and don’t let things get heavy. Stop ONLY when you find someone who “does it” for … [Read more…]

Most Important Factor for Success – Delayed Gratification

Joachim de Posada says, Don’t eat the marshmallow yet I’m here because I have a very important message. I think we have found the most important factor for success. And it was found close to here, Stanford. Psychology professor took kids that were four years old and put them in a room all by themselves. … [Read more…]

Pandora es no bueno en Mexico

Blast! I received the following notification when I attempted to listen to my Pandora stations in Mexico.. Dear Pandora Visitor, We are deeply, deeply sorry to say that due to licensing constraints, we can no longer allow access to Pandora for listeners located outside of the U.S. We will continue to work diligently to realize … [Read more…]

eHarmony..harmony? what?

Is eHarmony losing touch with their singles?  I couldn’t  resist posting these excerpts from a profile I was recently matched with… The most important thing xxx is looking for in a person is: Must be genuine, trustworthy, and have strong character. Must love the arts. Must be a non-participant of mainstream/commercial culture as it applies to entertainment. … [Read more…]

The Stole of Gratitude!

I was blown away when Cody presented me with his Stole.. The Stole of Gratitude offers an opportunity to say, “Thanks for helping me make it through.” “Thanks for making it possible for me to succeed.” “I didn’t do this alone.” the Stole of Gratitude is worn during the commencement ceremony. After the ceremony, the … [Read more…]

Conflict Resolution within any Relationship

In this short video a Moroccan iman (Leader of a Mosque..) man and his wife describe their thoughts about how to build a deep, trusting, and enduring relationship.  this transcended our mutual relationship to our relationships with others I love this man.